This article points out how many more options there were for drop outs of previous generations. There were plenty of unskilled, blue-collar jobs available. Okay, this isn’t going to win me any popularity points, but high school isn’t for everyone. College isn’t for everyone. Forcing all high schools to focus exclusively on preparing all kids for college is not the answer, but that’s where we’re going.
I brought this up once to a school board member, who curtly asked me which kids I was going to refuse to teach. I had to bite my tongue to keep from calling her a clueless twit. Well, maybe not quite “twit.” I’m the first to step forward and work with the hardest kids in my school, and I love it. I love them.
I just think that there’s more than one path in life. Some kids go to high school for four years, then college, maybe grad school…yada, yada, yada… Others need to take a break and try the school of hard knocks a while. Some do better getting their GED and going on to community college, a trade school, or some kind of apprenticeship. At this point, I hate to say it, but the military does some kids a world of good. It seems to me that, rather than forcing kids into holes they don’t fit through, we should help them find their fit. Then, instead of “dropping out” they’d be moving on, transitioning.
The current thinking treats kids like they are all little blobs of Play-Dough. Stuff ‘em into the Play-Dough Fun Factory and push the lever so we can squeeze them out in whatever shape we desire. And yet, who among us would want to be put through such a process? I’m afraid that the harder we push kids to be what we want them to be, the more they will push back and assert their independence. When my partner and I taught at-risk, we acknowledged from the very start that many of them didn’t want to go to college, and we supported their right to make that choice. We took them to job fairs and had guest speakers in to talk about other options. We taught them skills that had real-world applications (ones that also applied to college, but we didn’t present that as the reason for learning them; “Because you’ll need this for college” doesn’t wash with at-risk kids).
You know what? The vast majority ended up going to community college. You know what else? A lot of them took those associate’s degrees to four-year colleges and got their bachelor’s. Even more surprising? Several went on to get graduate degrees. Some… well…they didn’t continue their education after high school, but they used the skills and work ethic we’d taught them to move up into management levels of retail and food service. Not a career path I would have chosen, but it’s an honest day’s labor.
Our mantra in my school district is “all means all.” Every kid will achieve the same thing, and it’s our responsibility to make that happen. Hey, I’m for “all means all” in terms of giving equal opportunities, but somewhere in there we have to take into account free will. Jeeze, even God recognizes the free will part. If we keep insisting upon squeezing every kid through the Play-Dough Fun Factory, we’ll keep squeezing them right out the door without a diploma, and we will have made no steps toward giving them alternate means of being productive citizens. Hell of a plan.
Off that topic, I have to admit my own negligence in my previous post. I failed to mention that we don't seem care if some of our nation's citizens live in third-world squalor while our government bumbles around with its usual incompetence. I credit sophmom for keeping New Orleans in the forefront on her blog (http://www.myrants.blog-city.com/). There’s a link there to a video made by a ten-year-old girl in NOLA. She’s my daughter’s age, so it hit home for me.
Been trying to keep up on your blog. As usual, well said. We do spend too
much time ramming people into the cubby holes we think are right for them,
the "Fun Factory" analogy is perfect! Love ya!
I agree with you wholeheartedly.
It's ridiculous, the way everyone's latched onto the idea of college
degrees being necessary. My DH has no degree, but he has his own company.
He's much in demand for services other companies would require him to have
a degree to do. The stupid thing is, it's highly technological (digital
imaging) and there isn't a school out there that can afford the
state-of-the-art equipment he uses, so a degree would be outdated before he
even graduated.
Ummm Mella thinks...Mella thinks...Mella isnt sure really. Mella agrees
completely with Paula, but Mella agrees that school isnt the only thing
that will give an education.
Paula forgives Mella. Further, Paula thinks Mella's had a heck of a lot of
life experience crammed in early. So has W, for that matter.
It really is strange how everyone is pushed towards the college path,
irregardless of their abilities and talents. We get a lot of students at
our college who aren't particularly good students but who have talents in
non-traditional college subjects. I really like that the faculty gear the
curriculum to make it relevent to the working world, English papers
involving writing a newsletter, or a job proposal for example, over some
topic in which the student has no interest or use for after graduation.
Sure it is great to be well-rounded, but many people just want to be
employable. There needs to be more available for them. I'd like to see
the trades busted open too. You just about have to be a family member to
get a plumbing license anymore, at least around here, and they make damn
good money!
I agree with you wholeheartedly. My own path of education started with
dropping out in grade eleven and working construction and then in an oil
refinery and finally in the Armed Services. I was lucky and managed to get
a BA while I was in the service. It takes some people some time to find
their path in life, and life itself is the best education. What ever
doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
JWL
First of all, thanks for the shout out. I really appreciate it. There is so
much I want to communicate, yet my thoughts keep being pulled back to New
Orleans. If I didn't have one still in HS, I fear I would have moved there
by now.
I know what you mean, Sophmom. Most of the time, while my at-risk kiddos
struggled at school, their employers absolutely loved them! Real
entrepreneurs often don't do well with authority and regimen. They're
outside-the-box kids, and we need those kinds of people!